Friendship a random topic

Hey . Hope all r doing well . I was just thinking and randomly I felt I should say you about friendship. The reason might be that of  friendship day or may because I wanted to share something very important about how every friendship should be. 

I have a lot of people around and not all are my friends. But people I say friends (a few of them ) are some people I to want talk and clarify things directly but at times I feel they are not worth or simply I don't have much time to waste on them. So , ya as I said even before that this is just a random Blog nothing will point at one single person or so , it is just how things should go between friends that's it.

People, friendship should not be about boundary or importance or priority . It is about how happy and how comfortable you are with one another. Best friend doesn't mean something very great , it's just that friend whom you find more comfortable and a easy conversation . Best friend doesn't mean that person should always be with you and prioritise only you . Two people become best friends only when they understand and comfort each other . They are called so only when they are not insecure about things . I always say my mom is my best friend and it is not something randomly I started to say ,I have a reason for it . She is the one I talk everything to and I am more comfortable hanging out with her than those friends who always want me to just talk to them . My mom is the only person as a friend, family and world to me because she have never shown me her insecured feeling or that she is uncomfortable with me talking to my old friends or new friends . 

A friendship should comfort you it shouldn't be like ruling you. I love my childhood friends a lot and I am more comfortable hangingout with them . They are those who never asked me anything. I am that person who have lot to say but the moment someone tries to make me tell everything to make mind free I feel tight and suffocated with that person , probably that is why neither my parents nor my childhood friends never asked me why I am not in mood . My mom never asks me when I am upset that is because she know I ll share it with her at the end of the day . 

I just love this pic with my bff 😍 okay let us get back to the topic. Thank you is very rare word that I use but then I heartily thank you rowdy baby and all my childhood kiddos 💕. Honestly childhood friends are the best memorable people .

Don't make a friendship a big mess or boundary it is neither good for you nor the person with you . Friends are like family don't make friends and family together . If that was the case then English vocabulary would have just either of these words . Family has a different meaning and friends have a different aspect . I like my friends being family but that is something like friendo fam . People like me will have very small world with just mom dad and someone very close to heart . Guys remember your friends should not become your distracttion , distraction in this context doesn't mean in a wrong way it means that attachments. 

Friendship isn't always about daily convo it's just about calm composed space . There is no rule to make a friend and no rule about how a friend should be , but there is a rule that you have to make for yourself to never loose your self in between all. At the end of the you will have to stand for yourself and no one will be there . When it comes to competition honestly your own friends will be competing against you . So think wisely. Anyone of age reading this out , guys it is high time just move ahead and plan for your success. At the end no hard feelings. 

Hope will come with next random Blog on some random day again . Until then bye and ya to those who have slowed down because any distraction (might be friendship or attraction) speed  up . I ll tell if you think you are smart people around you are smarter than you .

Thank you!