FEAR OF FAILURE !

HEY ALL! Hope everyone are doing well and enjoying your LIFE  to the highest . Today's topic is something based on my experience as usual. Hope everyone of us have faced such fear for one or the matter . We human beings have fear for anything and everything now-a-days. Fear of loosing someone , fear of leading life , fear of water , fear of height and it continues. 

Fear of failure is the interesting topic which mostly kids of age between 15 - 23 face I believe. At the age of 15 the fear of failure starts because we have to choose science , arts or commerce for entering our college life . After 12th will be more frustrating I guess. The reason is more than parents relatives will be waiting for your 12th grade result and they will be with bunch of suggestions which will confuse you more and while thinking about which course to choose, the fear of failure increases more. 

People honestly I learnt a few points in the past few months. Say firstly don't give your ears for what is not required to you. Secondly , even if you are hundred percent confident about your plan A still give a chance to think of plan B which only you should be aware of . The moment you start hearing out to everyone you start feeling suffocated . At times I feel people also should understand to give kids their space and time to analyse the situation and not jump into them and start questioning what is the result and most importantly stop comparing with other kids . Everyone have their own ability and dreams . Oh come on people we are in 21st century grow up and try to update atleast to understand the situation .

This is the most difficult fear which is never easy to overcome . For me honestly too big fear that I probably have been trying to overcome right now. At times though I know whatever I choose will be leading my own future still scared of falling down. I am not scared of facing the problems ahead but at times I am scared of failure . But my mom said me one thing a few days ago that try to be positive around yourself and listen to your mind and heart. Try to think of winning rather than loosing . Every failure as someone said is the stepping stone for a success . Choose what suits you and not what people say their opinion about. 

I also said fear of failure around the age group of 20 -21 years that is of doing a job or doing masters , honestly this not a fear that leads to failure rather that is the options that you get to choose and it is entirely left to you . The moment you feel you have got fear of failure I would say it is never a fear rather it is always the confusion. Give some time for things to get sorted and just remember people who talk of your failure will not help you lead your life but the same people will be keeping a check on you to see whether you will get up and enjoy your new journey for success or will you quit everything . 

People will talk for everything . If you quit they will say I told you , you can't move in well in that branch and if you win ahead someday they will say you won because I motivated you and I was the person who told you to choose that branch . Honestly now after so many things that happened in last few months I have understood that I should choose my battle and be positive no matter what I will give my best shot . 

Hope you liked my blog ! Just enjoy your life and enjoy doing whatever you have chose to . 

Stay safe and stay healthy meet you back with my new blog in sometime. 

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